Unlovable moments call for LOVE

Unlovable moments and what are they? 1) tantrums in a public place 2) constant whining 3) talking violently 4) not listening and disrespecting others And the list goes on .. When I asked 20 parents on a parenting workshop how they treated their children in their unlovable moments, this is what I got – 1)…

If I had my child to raise over again…

It’s learning – unlearning – re learning parenting. Do I need to say anymore? I have this on my laptop as my wallpaper, a gentle reminder for me everyday. How would you like to keepsake this? Happiness and sunshine Nidhi

10 ways of Finding calm in the chaos !

How to find peace when everything around is buzzing ? How to relax the mind amidst the ocean of turbulent thoughts? How to remain sane when everything seems insane? Asked a friend after reading my post on finding peace and self love .How to meditate ? She asked again! When do I have the time…

Why BBM is the new BMW !

How do you feel when you drive the ultimate machine the BMW ? Oh Nidhi what a silly question ! Of course I will be happy. And what happens if you get stuck in a traffic jam ? Or a fellow motorist passed by you, or does not allow you to overtake ? What’s your…

Teach them how to think and not what to think !

Time to control your temptations and keep quiet . Let the young minds do some thinking and come up with some solutions . Curiosity and the ability to comprehend thoughts to probable solutions is by far the best gift you can give to your kids . And be prepared to amaze yourself with ideas and…

Feel better to behave better !

What happens when you scold your child or abuse them or punish them for the sake of discipline ?? I know it’s not easy to behave properly with them when they miss behave , but believe me if you misbehave too what do they learn ? Nothing . It take it as a challenge and…

Help others and calm your inner struggle !

What do you do when the mind is in conflict and there is constant struggle of emotions in the mind ? Find your inner calm by helping others and supporting them. The happiness on their faces will give you strength to calm the inner conflict and find peace . Take time out and sit with…

Don’t say “NO”

    Mom, can I go out in the rain? NO. Can I have an ice cream? NO. Can I go to my friend’s place and study later? NO. Can I cut vegetables? NO. Can I light the candles? NO. Can I buy that remote control toy? NO. But why do you say NO? Sometimes…

Seasons

Now that you are reading this (I assume) you are aware of our holiday in Shimla around new year’s. Well, upon returning I was busy unpacking and then packing up all the winter wear to keep in the loft, why? It’s still winter month, but hold on there is no real winter in south of…