Abundance week – 23

Dear Abundance seekers,

Welcome to week 23. A very common answer I get from people when I ask for that one thing they want from life is HAPPINESS. But only a few understand that in order to be happy we you need to get off the HEDONIC cycle NOW. lets explore this further,

What is HEDONIC cycle ?

Ever wondered why the happiness boost you get when you attain something does not last forever? After all if it makes you that happy it, that emotion should stay with you, right!

The hedonic treadmill or hedonic cycle  (also known as hedonic adaptation) is a theory positing that people repeatedly return to their baseline level of happiness, regardless of what happens to them.

Jean-Jacques Rousseau beautifully explained hedonic adaptation in his 1754 Discourse on Inequality with the following words:

“Since these conveniences by becoming habitual had almost entirely ceased to be enjoyable, and at the same time degenerated into true needs, it became much more cruel to be deprived of them than to possess them was sweet, and men were unhappy to lose them without being happy to possess them.”

Wondering if its true? Lets have a look at some examples.

What is happiness set point?

The most important thing to note here is that circumstances do not account for most of your happiness. It is one’s genetically determined predisposition for happiness.

Now the good news, you can alter this set point by training your mind. How? lets find out.

Next time you bite into the fruit of your choice don’t forget to enjoy each bite and relish its taste in the moment such that the last bite tastes equally juicy to the first one. Your happiness does not depend on WHEN, it depends on your NOW. Best is not to attach and entangle with things, emotions and people. After all you are NOT your body, mind or emotion, right !

Go on, explore your happiness point and set yourself free

Happiness and sunshine and stay tuned for week 24 coming up next monday.

Niddhi

9 Comments Add yours

  1. Can you define the impact of the hedonic cycle on our happiness? Actually, the term is not clear.

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    1. Hedonic cycle is setting a point for ultimate happiness after which it starts dropping. We get extremely happy to receive a bonus don’t we? This is about day 1 . but what happens on day 20? or 40? do we feel the same happiness? no , it starts to wean off. So always we find ourselves striving from one accomplishment to another , one possession to another one day to another. Hence we are never fully happy. What we do is delay happiness and get on the rat race to finding happiness.

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  2. Gibberish says:

    Interesting read 👍🏻

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    1. Thank you so much . Glad you found it interesting .

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  3. Arun Singha says:

    Gone through your article.
    Indeed we require everlasting happiness. Our true nature is that only. Happiness (Bliss) is our original nature, but we have forgotten that. Thank you so much for publishing this blog.
    Regards 🙏

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    1. Thank you so much Arun 🙂 I am glad you found the blog useful.

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      1. Arun Singha says:

        You are welcome. It is highly useful for mankind. We are trying to do the best for the mankind. Let there be peace, peace and peace everywhere.

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      2. Thanks again Arun 🙂 stay tuned for more .

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  4. Good points! Happiness in each moment is what I strive for. 😌

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