You give others a change to judge you only when you judge yourself. Stop complaining and stop this self pity drama. Do not underestimate yourself.
Allow yourself some time and compassion to recoup from the damage if already done and start afresh with self love, gratitude and kindness.
Take your me time out, envelope in your own cocoon and break free from shells of identity crisis and flutter like a new butterfly. A butterfly not afraid of the winds, able to ponder over flower to flower and free.
All the best!
Happiness and sunshine 🌼