Who do you want to be ?

Que Sera Sera

When I was just a little girl

I asked my mother, what will I be

Will I be pretty, will I be rich?

Here’s what she said to me:

Que Sera, Sera

Whatever will be, will be
The future’s not ours to see

Que Sera, Sera

What will be, will be

This is one of the many songs we were taught in school during my childhood. And today I decided to play this on my laptop while the children were relishing their dinner. Sparsh enjoyed the melody while the lyrics ignited Anaya’s curiosity. Sparsh suggested that he will ask his music teacher to teach him how to play it on his guitar next class , while Anaya wanted to know the meaning of the song.

After I explained her the song and it’s importance , she had another question ready for me . “Mom, why did they make songs to teach lessons?”. “Well because they didn’t have schools, and people did not know how to read or write so they used songs and pictures to teach people” I answered.

Time lapsed and soon it was time to snooze . We discussed our grateful events of the day and decided to hit the bed. Just before sleeping Anaya asked me her final question for the day. “Mom, do you ever wonder who you want to be?

I kept looking at her face , a blank expression ran across my face. Time froze and a chill went up my spine.

We all have dreams of becoming something great. We hold images and visions in our mind of the person that we one day desire to become . I also have some . I want to be a real not perfect parent . I want to be an equal not compromising wife . I want to be a nice person not a good one . I want to be ME and not what others want me to be . I want live THE life and not A life in all its happiness and abundance .


Becoming the person you want to be is not an outside search. You will not find your self-love in the affection you get from your partner, you will not find your confidence in the title you hold at work, and you will not find your true abundance in the amount of money in your bank account. The qualities that you wish to embody need to be created from the inside.

The secret to becoming all you want to be, lies in remembering that you are already everything you want to be. True inner power comes from believing that the the source of all that you desire to become, is within you.

All you need to do is Let go of everything inside of you, that is blocking you from being the person you want to be.Let go of everything that is not who you want to be.

All that prevents that part of you being expressed are the blocks you have created inside of you. All you have to do is release whatever it is that is blocking you from connecting with that part of you now.

Who you are is well encrypted in the seeds inside you and written in your destiny by the divine spark . All you need to do is connect with the higher soul and free yourself of the mind , body and thoughts .


And once you understand this you will have answers to all your questions. This is your only key to happiness , peace , abundance and spirituality.

Happiness and sunshine



4 Comments Add yours

  1. RubyCardinal says:

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    Liked by 1 person

    1. Sure will do 🙂


  2. Jaya Avendel says:

    I am that I am. I loved this post on being who you are.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. It is so important to know this , and once you do , nothing else matters !
      Thank you jaya fir penning this to me 🙂

      Liked by 1 person

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